By Ava Ay-Ay

In Korea children honor their parents on the 8th of May. There is not a specific day dedicated to mothers or fathers, but a special day called “Obio Nal” which could be translated as “Parents Day,” and which honors both. On May 8th children will wish their parents “Omoninalul chukahamnida!”

 “Obio Nal” dates back to 1300s. This day was set aside during the early days of the Choseon Dynasty to commemorate respect for parents and ancestors. During those times, any act of disrespect was also punishable by law.

Respect for your elders is a virtue highly valued by Koreans, that has prevailed generation after generation, and May 8th is a day when children shocase their love and appreciation for their parents. Within Korea, several religions are practiced, including Buddhism, Confucianism, Korean Shamanism and Christianity. Regardless of which, however, on Parents Day, Koreans thank God and the Heavens for their families and the privilege of parenthood.

The most common way for Korean children to express their gratitude to their parents is by giving them flowers. As part of tradition, carnations serve as the official flowers for this occasion. Typically, children attach a carnation on their parents’ lapels as a sign of respect. Carnations play a very traditional role in celebrating Parents Day as Koreans believe that pink and red carnations express the real meaning of gratitude, love and admiration.

Besides flowers, other presents are common on Parents Day. In recent years, taking parents out to dinner has also become a common tradition. In addition, special T.V. shows, concerts and celebrations take place to honor parents on “Obio Nal.”

“Omoninalul chukahamnida!”