By Khyria Cepe

Despite recognizing the father as the head of the family, Filipinos undeniably regard their mothers as the binding force in their families. Aptly given the title of “ilaw ng tahanan” or “light of the family”, Filipino mothers are placed on pedestals. Their advice is heeded, and their approval is seeked. Even the men of the family, husbands and male children, know better than to incur the ire of their mothers. In a modern and patriarchal society, Pinoy mothers are definitely deemed as equals to men.

That is why during Mother’s Day, celebrated on the second Sunday of May in the Philippines, mothers are placed in the spotlight. The timing is just right for Filipinos since Sunday is considered as family day. Sunday is always the perfect time to gather the entire, oftentimes extended, family for a celebration. The celebration usually starts with the entire family going to church together in the morning, a weekly practice observed by this predominantly Catholic country.

After a morning of prayers and thanksgiving dedicated to mother, or nanay, the family usually heads for a special lunch. For families in the city, restaurants all over the country have special menus prepared for the day. For families who’d like to stay at home, a special meal is prepared by the children and the father. Families who would like to enjoy the summer sun, usually enjoy a picnic at the beach. In all these gatherings, the mother is the center of attention, and the rest of the family does their best to please her.

Aside from the usual presents like flowers, jewelry, and chocolates, Filipino families usually take gift-giving a step further by giving mothers a “day off” from her daily chores and duties as custodian of the house and home. Special activities such as concerts are also held in their honor.

Filipino mothers take care of their family all-year long. Their role is given importance, and their sacrifices are recognized. That is why mothers in the Philippines get to be queen even for just a day every year.

“Maligayang Araw ng mga Nanay!”